Inner vacuum

Happy go lucky.Loved ones around is like a Forest green ; every road in the woods is interesting and soothing.when a strom strikes and distances our loved ones from us it creates a great depression ,say void or vacuum. Lush green dense woods looks like desert.

"Loved and lost......", hard to digest.

This vacuum is pain.Human being, a matured animal who craves for Love starts his run looking out for choices trying to make a point,"I am still lovable".In this mad rush to fill his vacuum he  welcomes any and every person who crosses his path not allowing himself to feel the pain of Love .(Ego or rush to make a point stops him from wailing his loss.)Feeling hollow and forsaken he is afraid to talk to himself.

In this sprint ,he may end up in a relation which is not ready for...

When its about your life there is no one more prudent than you . Ask your self ," Am i just filling the void or did i really find the right one"  .

who is the victim when we end up in wrong choice ?#justAsking

The rise of Brute..!!!

He was once a free bird, no worries no tension ,the most beautiful days of his life but the change is inevitable...time waits for none , it runs and unfolds the new environment and brings changes with it.Shoulders which were once very light started feeling the weight.Soon it started crushing him down and so his sweet smile.
Once soo sweet smile is turning very sore.once so calm n down to earth is now aggressive and furious. Deep dark emotions resting inside are now ready to erupt , Good inside him is too frail to stand and defend.

The rise of Brute..!!!

We are born with a Halo ,very pure...Are we growing old and getting polluted..?

Is change so inevitable...?agreed , but if its with you and you are not liking it ?
Are environmental factors dominating us?
and all these without any warrant..?

Peace Of Mind

Busy life....busy life...we are busy cursing bad happened to us...voidness in our life...things which we fail to do...
This life style is actually stealing our Peace Of Mind...

There is not much we can do about the bad that happened to us , but we very busy chanting them and ignoring the doors which will open to happiness. For all bad that has happened to us, we just the victim but not culprits.once done it all done, we cant travel in fourth dimension to revert them.so, it makes no sense regretting. Never try to question, Why me..? accept it, bounce back and let the world know your back.Things are good the way they are, better we make peace with God...

There is other side , we are in no peace of mind even when we are idle.It will give birth unnecessary thoughts and so ruin your life...voidness fills our life with boredom and makes us very vulnerable ..too dangerous...

There is no single window system in place for success in this competitive world..we have to work hard, face failures..depressed guy can never make it to final race. Don't blame others for your failures, its all yours ,sink it in which will help you calm down and focus on solution.
There is always a opposition , every one are good if we can see from their end.Every one have their own reason to take a stand in any regard.we cant hold those hard feelings forever.Best way to win over them is to forget them and forgive them.

We have enough of problems and are happy every time we are able to find key for one and so are others....Every thing is finite and has boundaries we cant cross them , to be other problems.

Make peace with god....peace of mind is the ultimate truth....Never wage a war, specially against yourself ....

Relationship...

Relationship is a feeling that you carry for a other person(or a thing).It is all about your own illusion, which may be true or false but right in your own way.You have a mapping of your own and have a desire for similar mapping.

I some how see a relation is always unidirectional...I don't mean that both ends cant have similar feelings but it is just another mapping but not the same .We tend to see the world around us with our vision(the way we like to see it) and relate our self to it.

There cant be any unhappy relationships...Both good and bad relation ship is giving you all the pleasure you want.You love someone because you love that feeling and when you hate some one you are still deriving the pleasure in that relationship, abusing him in your own thoughts.

These relationships at times become complicated when you imagine a same mapping from the other end and take things for granted.

Feeling bad about failing to get the other mapping is insulting your own feelings......I repeat, relation can always be one sided...you are in a relationship because you are drawing happiness out of it.With a incident or a two if they are taking a u-turn you are certainly insulting your own feelings.

Respect that fact that every one have their own perception of relationship and it can be very different from that of yours.If your feelings are changing for environmental reasons it reflects your selfish attitude.

Every relation you had/have will be a sweet memory in future..

Life is a wonderful journey with beautiful relations....

Life will teach you the way to go.......

Every day you go out, you see new people and get to face the new challenges and your aquire knowledge over a period and you grow.Never expect Nirvana, its just a word in dictnory and you will never get to see that.If a day comes where Nirvana is turned true belive me people then wouldn't understand it.You need bad to Understand good.

There isnt a compulsion that you must always be a good boy.After all we are human and negative thoughts chase us ,we try to resist them and pose as a good boy.These feelings wouldnt die down as you resist they are just suppresed .......one day this would turn into furstation and explode which is even more dangerous.Be a bad boy for a day ,expirence it and when you understand there is no fun in being so you would transform into a better Human.

Life will teach you the way to go........

From Birth to Death life gives you many lesson it is on you to understand them.Just gathering knowledge isnt of any use if not put to use on the right time...Its like making a paper bout and planing to cross a Atlantic ocean.....Life isnt fare;If you dont play it right, you will get hit.

LIfe is the best teacher.It teaches you every thing under the sun if your dare enough to absorb and digest them.We grow strong with every challenge we take up.

The two main reasons for all the misery in you is not being yourself under pressure and seeking perfection from your perspective.....

As you move on and grow old you will have many experience and memories.Some are sweet and some are sore.Sweet one are cherished long jus because you had even the sore ones in middle ,else they would have lost their importance.Never regret your mistake take them as an experience and keep moving.When you want to quickly retospect your life,take a look at the past through rose-tinted glasses, your lips will make a arc and your eyes will smile.

Life will go the way you take it....You want to be Happy life will give you thounsand reasons why you can end your day with smile...you fear , even a small insect will fear you to death......you wanna hate,world is so imperfect that you can hate everything around you......wanna spread Love, you will come across million frames where love blooms

Life is all about living Happy......

Hope...

hmm i have been writing on life and Feeling of living .....some thoughts are pinging me from a long time...what exactly is driving life...
coming to the point what exactly is driving us.....i say its hope....

Hope?

isn't it true we always move forward in hope...if something bad has come for way, we hope future in good....if v are in good time we hope road a head is even more better....the movement hope goes off from ur heart you turn into a looser and you will find your self in a deep ocean surrounded my water.

no one knows what the next second in this life would be, we live with the hope of better future...hope can wary from a strong one, backed by good strategies to naked fragile hope of a lost sailer on the sea to a blind hope of a miracle....

hope itself isn't going to fetch, miracles are very rare,Aladin lamps are lost some where in the history so we must give our best and hope our act fetch results for us....

itz this hope that is keeping us active.......

Now give wings to your dreams and work hard(with love for your dreams) with a hope to turn them into reality

life is so,it cant be otherwise.....

To be success full in life you need to have a possitive Attitude.Its only when you think you can do it you can dare to try for it.Possitive attitude will give you all the energy needed for reaching your goal and One negative thought can put you far behind your compitents...
All that matters is how you see the things.....If you have a positive outlook, world round you looks beautiful and if you have the negative waves passing in you , you will start searching for flaws in every corner.
Always carry the positive attitude..It will show you the way to live life
life is so,it cant be otherwise.....


Love is the ultimate truth in this world.When you can understand and feel the world round and love them unconditionally the world is yours.
life is so,it cant be otherwise....


It is not a must to win all the time;but never give up until you reach your goal;Learn from your mistake and once you reached your goal you are more valued then the person who did it at first shot because you know even the routes that can lead to failure...
Some people blame their fate...."my fate is not good, why did i opt for this".Being carried away by the negative waves they overlook the answer they have with them.you say, you say your not doing good because of your past activity then your future is dependent on what you do today...isn't?
You will always have the frictional forces coming against you and these forces will help you grow strong and move forward....Without these forces you will never know what your capable of ...When you want to achieve something you must belive that you are here to acheive that and your are opted because you are the one who can solve that....
You can reach any Horizon and sustain there only with own efforts and nothing else...
life is so,it cant be otherwise.....


When your in a dilemma listen to your heart it will show you the right way..
Life is a beautiful gift..we must be giving our best all the time to make it much more beautiful.
life is so,it cant be otherwise.....

How you Respond is Important

Other day there was a message from my friend , “What is important is not what happens to me, but how I respond to what happens to me.”

If you can read the message correctly , it will tell you how you can be a perfect man and if you interpret it wrongly it will turn you into a brute..

To keep the dynamics going it is important you respond to the things going around you ....and its more important that you respond in the right way; at times keeping quite is a very wise decision and if your taking a decision you are responding..

When things are going good we are too optimistic , we let go the most foul act and when things are going against your interest smallest of the small looks very BIG....

It is important that we realize both the responses are Wrong....

We must maintain a equilibrium in either situations and not loose our head...Do not get carried away in good times and do not loose your temper in rough times

Remember that Retaliation is the sign of weakness.. Strong person absorbs the fact and looks for the answer..

work with your heart in place

It is important to understand that what we see may not be truth.We take our perception for truth may at times and neglect to unveil the real truth.

Its we who are making our life's complicated.We think a lot to be Mr.perfect.At times We push our self to be what we are not.Does working mean to stop being a human and act like a machine, work 24hrs a day and feel sorry u dint have 25th hour.

If you are doing a mistake its not wrong , we are human and we have that word,'mistake' in our jargon because we do them.Just make sure you do not repeat them.Why do these mistakes repeat?Hmmmm its because your heart is not with you at work.When you choose your area of interest as your work, you will try to keep the learning process on and for sure will excel for sure.

we will have to make many choices from many options at times, few may seem to be ez ones and your interests may seem to be a difficult ones or not so promising.you can live either way,picking the right option is important.

question your self...when did you last listen yourself?Did you give yourself enough time.

Work with your heart in place.
So, now, when will your heart support you?its When you say something you believe in and act in accordance to them .That day you will be the leader.You know your interest, put your efforts in them, you will surely excel one day.

when you listen to your heart You will have a happy life, you will never regret for what you are, because your heart is with you all through your journey.If you ever feel bad about your decision because you dint listen to your heart, your social and economic status wont help in healing your broken heart and you will never ever able to forgive your self.

saying 'excelling', i do not mean you will be on top of the world or will reserve some pages in history , you will have a happy life,'True way to live a life'.
when your happy...You can feel Heaven on Earth.
Life is simple...Its all about making right choices...Have a happy life...

Time is precious...

Time is precious...
i grew up listening this phrase...When i was young it was Parents turn, when i joined collage lectures took control and now Superiors at Work..
Today when i sit in my room ,alone in absolute silence and think how i used time and what i gained all these years....i see nothing, i feel nothing great or Proud.What i am Today just came to me with time and its not because of my great efforts.But planing for this and working for this i lost my Running Track, I lost my basket ball, i left red mud back in ground without carrying it home on my shirt and many to list here.
I do not really understand why i was not having time to jump and dance in rain, Take a break and spend time in woods, sit on river bank and talk to friends.
Today i Understand the Phrase,"Time is precious"..... i want to get all those back , want to run on those tracks, spend time with my Basket ball , what not,every thing i dint do then.I want to shout loud and tell how much i missed them.
I understand if i am feeling bad about something its because of my deeds then, i was listening to what others are saying but not my sweet little Heart, i have let him down all the time.Now i made up my mind ,I will follow my Heart when i have to choose between the two roads.
" Time is Precious", don't waste it...if did so,now don't feel bad about that and waste your time, Take your turn and all those people who are trying to live your life, for their dreams, "Time is Precious"...

Love is absolute...

what is Love ?
I don't think I am matured enough to speak on this topic which is as vast as this universe.

I would say it is only one word in this world which is not relative...and is simply absolute.
every thing in this world is relative, they are comparable except for Love...
I often keep hearing same old stupid question, how much do you love me?...and they just don't ask but demand an immediate answer,what can the opposite guy tell....gone are those days when Hanuman opened up his chest to show his love for Rama.
Love is absolute, there is nothing like to some extent, so much, soooooooo much...

Love never demands for any thing it just knows to give, give and give....it shares all that it has.Love is never calculated(another reason to say its absolute).what makes mother so dearer to her infant ; its Love, Love at first sight.she doesn't know anything about her nor she can understand this complicated materialistic world.There are no reasons to fall in love.

Fall in Love, yes fall in love....phrase itself speaks a lot, we don't step into love instead fall in love, its not planed it jus happens.

Love is same in all relations.....its the relation that changes our perception
sun gives out heat n light in the same way to all things in this solar system .... its only the factors that make us feel the difference

Love is a beautiful feeling....not sensed by our sense organs as science explained us but by inner soul.its a heavenly feeling, where you live for others comfort and find your happiness in their comfort.it gives you all the inner joy needed to make your life beautiful.


is Love just a word? nope, its a language, language which is not spoken but understood....a universal Language

life is beautiful..

life is beautiful..
i feel all the good around me.NO evil even dared to give a glance at me.My hard work fetched results.i am not tired and thatz because i am enjoying the results for my sincere hard work..
i ran hard in the race...ran too hard
i always wanted to be first in the race and for this reason i started running even
before sunrise in the dark and kept running predicting future.Thinking what the
future is going to be and what i should be doing to win the race...
After crossing many milestones I'm tired,i am feeling suffocated and i am trying
hard to breath with my mouth to break the suffocation and i see no one around me who can take time to help me ,hmmm i have no right to demand them it was the same i was doing some time back when some one cried for help.
And when sun came up and i turned back to see with all evil force in my eyes but..................

i was shocked to realize that i was running alone in the race....

Take time for your near and dear don't think its wasting time ..your alone in the
race , try to pick friends wen ur running on the track who will come to your help to
break your suffocation when you are tired.

I was wrong, Evil was playing with me all the time....I neglected many when they are by my side and now when i need them i have nobody who cares for me...
still no complaints ....
Better late than never, i will try and pick friends
life is all about giving and taking.....

no...no.........nooooo, even thatz a wrong view...its all about sharing..

relations are maintained we don't get them on the fly like technologies..