Relationship is a feeling that you carry for a other person(or a thing).It is all about your own illusion, which may be true or false but right in your own way.You have a mapping of your own and have a desire for similar mapping.
I some how see a relation is always unidirectional...I don't mean that both ends cant have similar feelings but it is just another mapping but not the same .We tend to see the world around us with our vision(the way we like to see it) and relate our self to it.
There cant be any unhappy relationships...Both good and bad relation ship is giving you all the pleasure you want.You love someone because you love that feeling and when you hate some one you are still deriving the pleasure in that relationship, abusing him in your own thoughts.
These relationships at times become complicated when you imagine a same mapping from the other end and take things for granted.
Feeling bad about failing to get the other mapping is insulting your own feelings......I repeat, relation can always be one sided...you are in a relationship because you are drawing happiness out of it.With a incident or a two if they are taking a u-turn you are certainly insulting your own feelings.
Respect that fact that every one have their own perception of relationship and it can be very different from that of yours.If your feelings are changing for environmental reasons it reflects your selfish attitude.
Every relation you had/have will be a sweet memory in future..
Life is a wonderful journey with beautiful relations....
Very nice annaya keep writing....
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